Monday, February 10, 2025

#36. Decade of Love

Assalaamualaikum WBT

Dear Khaulah,

Happy 10th birthday, our dear croquembouche! It feels like just yesterday you were a tiny baby in our arms, and now look at you—growing into a wonderful young girl with your own dreams and ideas. Watching you grow has been one of the greatest joys of our lives. Each day, you teach us so much about love, curiosity, and the beauty of being true to oneself.

We want you to know how grateful we are for the light you bring into our lives. You have a special way of making every moment brighter, and your laughter is a treasure we hold close to our hearts. As parents, we've learned, and continue to learn, from you. You remind us of the importance of seeing the world through a child's eyes—full of wonder and endless possibilities.

As you step into this new decade, Ayah and Ibu want to share a few pieces of advice that we hold dear:

1.    Be Kind: Always choose kindness, even when it’s hard. A small act of kindness can change someone's day, and sometimes even their life. Remember, kindness is a strength, not a weakness.

2.    Stay True to Yourself: Never be afraid to express who you are. Embrace your uniqueness, and never compare yourself to others. You have your own path, and that path is beautiful.

3.    Learn and Grow: Life is a journey of learning. Embrace every experience, whether it challenges you or brings you joy. Every moment teaches us something valuable.

4.    Practice Patience and Resilience: Life may not always go as planned, but remember to stay steadfast in goodness. In times of trouble, hold on to your values and keep your heart open. Resilience will carry you through challenges.

5.    Cherish Family and Friends: They are the anchors in your life. Surround yourself with people who uplift you, support you, and encourage you to be your best self.

6.    Embrace Islam as Your Guiding Light: Always return to Allah and let your faith guide you in your decisions. The Quran is a treasure trove of wisdom, so turn to it for guidance and inspiration. The examples of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) teach us the importance of compassion, integrity, and perseverance. Strive to embody these qualities in every aspect of your life.

Today, as we celebrate you, we want you to remember that you are deeply loved. We are incredibly proud of the person you are and the person you are becoming.

May this year be filled with laughter, adventure, and all the things that make your heart sing!

May Allah bless you always..

 

With all our love,

Ayah & Ibu.




Note : This letter was published on 28 January 2025, your 10th birthday, in the book Letters to Khaulah. There's another letter from your mom in there too, exclusive only for the book hehe